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your engine has a question how to
distinguish between love and attachment
there is a story of King Bharat who died
in worry then dear he cared for did not
come this was not love perceptions okay
I don't know the story but I know what
is difference between love and
attachment
about giving
is about taking love is fearlessness
attachment is the fear of losing and
love is freedom attachment is bondage
everybody knows that isn't it who else
can tell me you know let us do this q
and again anybody wants to add more
point in points in this table love
versus attachment very very
knowledgeable people here in this matter
I think more than me because I never
love when I don't have any attachment no
practical knowledge here
what I know is you know when you don't
need anything when you find you I am
whole and complete the the consequence
is love we call it the unconditional
love where you don't want but you don't
want to give also you are also the
Brahman what are you asking love me
please what we are already one
yes Munising attachment is selfish love
itself is very good or it is the self in
two forms one and same thing is a
tasting love lets when free attachment
cases that is what I said in bondage and
freedom yes Ranjit has another point
that attachment causes suffering and
love causes happiness this is guaranteed
love always causes happiness the one who
is giving is happy one who is receiving
is Happy attachment give me this thing
do this for me and those who are asking
they are also in hell and they are
making the other person's life also hell
this is attachment now don't go I want
you in my life what is that not love
now that person is also in Chains and
this one is also already in Chain Love
is godliness very nice yes all there is
what is love you know what is the
definition from the Love on The Path of
Knowledge uh non-duality and there is
only one love is recognition of Oneness
of everything
you and me and everything else is one
now how much love you need after that
who are you going to love nobody else
self-love
that is why it is unconditional because
when there are two you need to be really
careful here what are you loving and
whom you are loving but here
unconditionally you can dump that person
anytime because it does not cause any
suffering of any kind yes you know
because we are humans we may feel a few
things here and there sometimes it feels
like somebody's leaving me but that is
attachment only attachment is leaving
you
if you if somebody leaves you somebody
dies or you know anything happens
and you feel pain it is the attachment
leaving you because the attachment was
so deep like The Arrow it when it is
withdrawn it's a pain but you become
normal in one day if you have the proper
awareness if you have done your step
number four properly
you can come out of the human tendencies
in one day I'm not saying don't
experience it why not you experience it
experience the pain of attachment but
don't remain attached to that pain Let
It Go
gram is saying non-difference of lover
and beloved very nice very nice there is
no difference in love the thing that you
know I love you Falls statement isn't it
there is no I in you in love there is
only loving it sounds a lot like the
experience and the experience sir it is
nothing it is experiencing so when I say
I love you there is no I here and there
is no you there it's loving
so you can be in the love you cannot do
the love it's probably you can make love
but that is a totally different aspect
of
Poonam is saying love freeze the love
one attachment is bondage very good yes
like the biggest bondage is marriage in
our society it is totally survival based
animalistic relation marriage that is
why none of it is happy and only those
who are very simple people villagers and
tribals they are happy in marriage in
the bondage as soon as you become a
little bit grown up educated aware now
you won't be able to marry anybody
it does not mean that you won't be able
to love everybody anybody you will be
able to love whomever you want so that
is why I'm totally against all kind of
bondages the marriage is a bond which
will last for many lifetimes the
consequences the linger for many
lifetimes you have a love affair no
issue at all it is also for many
lifetimes but it is not going to cause
any bondage you will meet the same lover
again and again many times but it's
freedom
so any kind of legal relation where you
need to sign because the other person
needs to survive on your money very bad
never let the society tell you what is
love and don't tell the society they
need to suffer they need the fruit of
their karmas
Graham is saying the lover feels the
same about himself and the Beloved yes
there is no difference at all actually
in a good relation of love the minds
become one you will find the evidence of
universal memory here if you are deeply
in love you will know what they are
doing what they're thinking whether they
are in trouble or whether they are angry
or sad
merging happens why is there uh like
hate hate is the embodiment of
Separation I am not like you this is the
hate or I am better than you or you're
not worth me this is the hate love is
exactly opposite it's the merging not a
separation and the merging is manifested
as the destruction of the walls between
the minds
is possible I mean almost everybody gets
this kind of experience you remember the
person whom you are loving you get the
call or you already know that your
girlfriend is going to send you pictures
if you open the mail there are pictures
happens a lot to everybody but because
of the ignorance they kind of cannot
think more than that if you ask a person
on The Path of Knowledge immediately
will say Universal memory I told you so
yes Universal memory you see what do you
need to do to get an Evidence of the
universal memory love fall in love see
how beautiful it is
sweetie is saying because existence is
when therefore when when becomes one
with it love is called to be
unconditional very nice very sweet love
is effortless attachment requires effort
Shreya very good very good very unique
thing yes you don't need to do any
effort to love anybody you know it's
still there it's just their attachment
you need to keep that person Bound to
You by hook or crook by gifting things
or by serving that person or by
manipulation or sometimes people lie a
lot of people it isn't it
sweetest thing only when you are in
ignorance we seek or want love very nice
the ignorant person is always asking for
something and a knowledgeable person is
always giving something
take it I have love if I am love okay
how much you want no no you are ugly I
don't want your love okay no problem
I still love you so it has nothing to
lose you see love has nothing to lose
and attachment is already lost already
things have been lost there that is why
it is fearful
Mary saying love has always been a
misunderstood Concept in history
example of unconditional love no you are
also an example is you and me are one
isn't it we are all examples the thing
is some of the examples they don't know
that they are examples
some of the samples they don't know what
they are they are the troublemakers
isn't it like I say there are Seekers
and they are trouble Seekers always
seeking trouble with you see the
existence is all the possibilities we
need the hate to understand the
importance of the love
we need the conditional love to
understand the likeness of the
unconditional love conditional love is
very heavy isn't it you do this for me
I'll do that for you no no I don't have
time for you okay I don't love you then
all right I love somebody else not you
and that is that is a you know real test
of your love but you if you let go of
that person okay I'm happy if you are in
love with somebody I still love you
probably I love you doubly because now I
won't be able to see you more that is
the test of your unconditional love do
you die the other person in conditions
or not so everybody can be yes because
there is a human angle here we do feel
bad when somebody says no I don't love
you I love somebody else we start crying
it lasts for a day or two play the sad
songs of the old movies and so on but it
can return to normal start loving
doubling send more love and let go
anyhow bit open is saying attachment is
a survival mechanism love is above
survival very nice very nice oh that
means we should not survive and what no
no if you if you need to say an
attachment of some kind stay there it is
necessary for survival like the mother
and the child they are attached to each
other without this attachment survival
is not guaranteed but as soon as the
baby grows up now you need to be
unconditional the love can stay the
attachment can go the bond can stay but
the chain can be cut
isn't it I I don't think people
understand this thing I don't think
people have the common sense to
understand what I'm saying or what you
already know what people in our such
thing no ordinary people don't
understand these things
wandering is saying in the midst of the
whole drama of human life marriage seems
like it provides a good opportunity for
evolution of this creature is it okay
better to stay away from these
challenges no no no no you see
life is a challenge only for those who
are ignorant for those who know it is a
play why do you think it is a challenge
why is marriage and kids and other
people are challenged play them they're
puppets they're your toys the thing is
when we are ignorant it looks like a
challenge and then it is helpful for our
growth if the life is without any
challenge you will find that the person
that who grow who does not grow up
really the person becomes really shallow
and a good example of that is you know
highly pampered people who received
everything because their parents were
rich and so on or they got the good
education and never never got troubled
by any anything and now you talk to them
in their totally shallow people the most
deepest conversation they can have is
about their dog what their dog does all
day that's all they know or they know
the names of the products and the brands
of the products that's all we can think
about
but look at a person who has gone
through the middle of the life you can
benefit from his experience
so don't stay away from the challenges
know why it is it sounds like a
challenge know why it sounds like a
something to be overcome and once you
know which is only possible on The Path
of Knowledge under the guidance of a
proper Guru then it is no more a
challenge it is a stepping stone
I'll tell you something which is never
told in any scriptures or any other
lecture by these gurus is that you don't
need to take the lesson twice
what do I mean by that you married once
and you suffered
don't marry again you had one child you
know what is a child you see don't don't
produce another don't reproduce again
this is never mentioned in any Scripture
this is the secret I'm telling you
you you were troubled by other people
your boss or somebody employee or your
neighbor kick them out of your life you
got the lesson is is it really
intelligent to take the lesson every day
you got it leave them pick them out you
understood now do we need to study again
and again and again no give the book
away to somebody who needs it your name
your neighbor can go and trouble
somebody else you see they need the
challenge not you
this is the Practical thing I never do
it I never take the lesson again it is
too bitter we don't want it it's too
uncomfortable
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