Relationships and Mind Attacks, Baby Birth, Snake and Evolution

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hello and welcome to pure experiences

online satsang this satsang is a meeting

an opportunity for everyone to ask their

questions

clear their doubts and discuss the

spiritual matters and this is also a

part of the program the path of

knowledge program problem birthdeep is

asking why for a seeker being unrelated

in a relationship is the natural way

what do you mean by unrelated in the

relationship if you are unrelated then

there is no relationship already

are you saying that

why it is natural for a seeker to not be

in any relations

then

it is natural because

a seeker is totally detached most of the

time

and there is a attitude of friendliness

only that is the only relation that they

like because the other relations are

just

transactional give and take a seeker

simply likes to give

not take and therefore the relations do

not exist for a seeker it's all friendly

attitude towards everybody even for the

people who don't like them

and mostly because of detachment there

is avoidance of people instead of being

with people they want to be left alone

and because of knowledge we know that

there are no people so it is kind of

meaningless

to

get involved with people if it is not

necessary if it is necessary it happens

and because of the knowledge we know

that

everyone is my form so if you and me are

one no relation is possible it takes two

to relate so there are all these reasons

plus

there are purely practical reasons

like

you are on a spiritual path and almost

90 percent of the

worldly people they don't like it they

don't want their

son daughter wife husband

to be in that kind of lifestyle it is

incompatible with the worldly lifestyle

so there is a natural

avoidance there is a natural breaking of

such artificial relations

what are the natural relations for a

seeker

love and friendliness compassion and so

on and the most negative relation that

somebody seeker can have with anybody

is of

indifference

we don't worry too much about such

people

one day i was talking about this kind of

thing and somebody asked that we need to

operate in the world and what kind of

relation we should have with people and

the best thing to do with strangers

mostly

is to have a transactional relation give

them whatever they want and then have no

other personal things with them nothing

to do do with them

because first they don't understand what

you are and second they will become a

problem in your seeking in your

practices so this should be the

bottom

line here that with the worldly people

your relation should be transactional

which which means give and take without

any attachments

with other spiritual seekers

friendliness

and love that's all no other religion is

possible but saying but outside world

isn't familiar that's why i'm saying

they only

know how to take or give give and take

you do this much for me i do that much

for you right from your shopkeeper to

your life partners they know only this

much so you need to meet them where they

are if you try to be compassionate and

giving and giving and they will they

will not understand and they and some

people will simply misuse your

compassion some people will think you're

stupid and so the practical way is to

simply

meet them where they are to be like

worldly person when it comes to

interaction with the worldly person

and have nothing to do with them if you

really want a relation choose somebody

who is spiritual and is of the same path

as you are that is what i found as the

solution for this

you need to interact with the people

cannot avoid all of them you can avoid

90 percent of them but there are some

your boss and whatever you need to

interact with them all the time so your

boss demands demands work you need money

it's a transactional relation so

everything is like this for the worldly

people and

if you want a relation pick a spiritual

person but the problem is the spiritual

person will not want a relation so

ultimately you end up with no relations

that is the natural way

you are related to everybody it's called

unconditional love you are related to

everybody unconditionally then you do

whatever is needed practically this is

how to handle people

do not try to fix them do not try to

force them into spirituality do not

lecture them or teach them just give and

take and then have no other business i

have seen people try to fix others not

only that they try to fix the entire

city and country and world also that is

not possible and we should not do it it

is perfect as it is

some people say that i'll become a guru

so that i can

liberate people i can enlighten people

no it's not possible also you can become

guru and offer your service only this

much is possible you become available

for somebody

if they call you guru yes no problem but

you cannot

teach anybody it's not possible to teach

anybody

they come to you with some questions and

problems and whatever you need to answer

only this much is possible

those who are ready the grasp the

knowledge you need to be simply

available there and nothing else should

be done with these people even with the

seekers nothing else is required beyond

this

ajit is saying in the path of knowledge

what is the birth of a baby symbolize it

is not symbolic it is an event in the

illusion it is very perceptible not

symbolic we do not attach any symbolism

to it on the path of knowledge it is

simply the illusion that is appearing as

a baby there is no hidden meaning in

that as far as i am concerned yes some

people will attach many things to it but

no it is just an event like any other

illusory event birth of a baby is also

illusion

mother is illusion the baby is illusion

the father is illusion nothing has

really happened so what to symbolize

now i know people are not going to like

it

that means they have some kind of

attachment

and what should we do when a baby is

born take care of the baby become a good

parent

in the illusion be the illusion don't

tell the baby that you are an illusion

they won't understand it they will

simply cry

so feed them protect them let them grow

up if they are inclined towards

knowledge just give them knowledge

otherwise let them live the

ordinary life rajit is asking how to

deal with mind attacks where the mind

wants to go back to the old is there any

specific purification process

or we just have to withstand it

it is very simple whatever happens in

the mind

become a witness become aware of it if

you call it an attack

something is already wrong there that

means there is no awareness

there is no attack in the mind the mind

does not attack anybody there is no no

one to attack there is no person there

also it is just mental activity and it

is just the habit which is being

repeated same

activity is being repeated circular

activity

all you need to do is become aware of it

no specific purification is required yes

to prevent this kind of attack in future

you can adjust your lifestyle a little

bit

check why is this happening there has to

be some memory there which is causing

this and then do not do anything of

similar nature do not repeat the

mistakes because of which your condition

has become like this

and whatever past impressions are there

they are going to express themselves and

you need to witness them in a friendly

manner in loving manner if you fight

with it

that is more activity only awareness is

the solution not processes

not

more activity not more practice

no that will never work only awareness

has the power to dissolve the old

nothing else

so i've told you many things like

forgiving and serving and all these

things they are applicable for the self

also self means this illusory individual

you need to forgive that individual also

for whatever it has done or things i

have done usually knowledge takes care

of these things so we do not do all

these procedures

but in some cases where the awareness

has not appeared and the person is

suffering i do recommend some things

some rituals

but normally if you're on the path of

knowledge you should get the awareness

immediately just after self-realization

should be established in awareness

and if the mind is impurities are

troubling there will be some time lag

there will be a gap and then it becomes

necessary to perform some practices and

that is what we do on the step number

four

it should happen naturally the awareness

should be there naturally because as a

result of the knowledge but because of

the impurities no it slips so we push it

a little bit push the awareness using

practices

so that will help rajit as soon as you

you get to the step number four you will

be given the practices and if that also

even the practice is not possible then

we have the step number five of

purification only then we recommend

purification otherwise not

my suggestion to reject is you know

change your language make it friendly

make it friendly there is no mind which

attacks nobody to attack and

nobody is withstanding it you see if you

change your language that alone is

enough to purify many things as soon as

you say i am angry because of my past

events and because this person did this

to me

and

now i need to take revenge and all and

then you say oh mind is do my mind is

doing this

and it is attacking me and it is

negative this language is like

fuel in the fire of the mind so what do

you do you change the language like this

that there is mental activity now i am

witnessing it it is of this kind it is

anger it is happening i am looking at it

i know why it is happening it is because

of my own mistake you see instead of

finding the fault in others accept mime

is your own mistake and then you say

it's okay it's fine this is how it

should happen this is how

this thing the layered structure should

react

you see change your language to the

language of knowledge instead of

language of ignorance you will

immediately see the effect that whatever

is happening

will simply fall apart it will go away

it will this it will disappear what will

remain will be the peace of awareness

that will remain forgiving will happen

and if you continue like this

then

the old tendencies will be raised they

will be weakened so language has power

choose your words very carefully

sometimes when we talk yes we use that

language but then you should be aware

that when i say i am angry i am fearful

that does not really mean i so you can

say anger is there fear is there old

habits are appearing this

instantly brings awareness you can see

it right now a little bit of detachment

distance yourself from the mental

activity

and the language will help you immensely

weapon is saying snakes are species

depicted in lower layer according to

ancient layered model recently saw a

snake how this

even can be interpreted

in the light of this knowledge in terms

of memory structures entity

world's bodies if it appeared in my

experience how layers can communicated

just as so that model could be grasped

with more clarity for kindly explain any

other valid example i don't think that

there are snakes in the lower layers it

is all symbolic it is all symbolic the

snakes live below the ground and

that is what

they could imagine about the creatures

that may be found in the lower layers

lower than earth

there's not lower layer actually that

will be called the lower worlds

so

if you see a snake and that is from our

world nothing to do with the layers in

the lower worlds

there can be creatures in other worlds

who cares

the whole existence is stuffed with

creatures of different kinds

so

probably

they are symbolizing these things by

snakes so if this you saw a snake it is

from our world the poor creature is from

our world only

and it means nothing specific on the

path of knowledge it means nothing

it was just a snake roaming roaming

around

so

if you are in the kundalini tradition

then this is auspicious symbol not on

the path of knowledge

in the kundalini tradition as soon as

you start the kundalini practice or you

are given the energy transfer

you see snakes around you especially the

black one the long ones the ten feet

long snakes then it is considered very

auspicious

it is just a sign from the existence or

the guru field that it has worked for

you that is your path now the devi has

taken the form of the snake just to

remind you that i am there

and they will appear i mean there is no

doubt in my mind that you're on the path

of kundalini snakes will get attracted

to such seekers they don't harm you they

simply look at you and they go away so

those who want more information can look

at

satguru jagiwasudev's videos he loves

snakes and he talks a lot about snakes i

don't have that kind of knowledge

obviously

referring you to sadhguru givasudev lot

of knowledge there but you see that

knowledge is also mysterious and nothing

useful will be told to you if you are on

the kundalini path just look at them

appreciate say thank you and move on no

need to make them pets no need to invite

them in your house

number two after death rebirth happens

according to desires

by the way there are many

big snakes where i live and i keep

i mean i keep seeing them all the time

after death rebirth happens according to

desires is there a chance for birth to

happen in the lower layer once birth

happened as a human or

just human birth again or some higher

state means evolution is offered only

yes mostly the evolution is offered only

but

if your

actions are not good then

the impressions that you get

are also a similar kind and the

impressions decide

where the birth will happen so if your

life has been mostly

animalistic like you are a consumer only

and you are some kind of let us say

criminal then

it is guaranteed that

you will be demoted to some lower life

form i call it progressive recycling

probably there is a mention of it in our

videos somewhere but it is

explained in lot of

detail on my podcast on the on in the

episodes of reincarnation there are

three or four talks on reincarnation you

should listen to them i call it the

progressive recycling which means

the progress is mostly upwards this

whole causal body it progresses upwards

but because of the

wrong deeds or you can say wrong

influences sometimes

the actions are not really good they

form bad impressions and

what happens is naturally they are

recycled back in the old

uh yoni's old womb

whatever you call it old forms lower

forms

and

there the cleanup happens or whatever

desires are there animalistic desires

whatever violence it is played out and

they again progress to the higher ones

and if there also they do not perform

nicely then they are even recycled even

below that form lower form

so from humans to mammals and mammals to

reptiles and so on then

they become trees and grass and

something

it's possible

but

very rare very rare as soon as we come

in the human

level

it will be one in a million case which

will be recycled back one in a million

even if you do something really bad you

will take a birth in human form the

tendency is very strong to be human that

tendency is very strong so only that the

birth happens in a very bad condition

this is called the karmic returns

so there you have your answers

it was a nice satsang and i hope

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answers

and

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