https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TG66YGLWcpc
what i need to do to bring more joy in
my experience all you need to do to
bring joy in your all daily experiences
is to realize that you are the bliss
there is no joy inherent in any
experience the experiencer is joyous the
experiencer is blissful what is our
mistake is that we completely ignore the
experiencer and we look for joy or
happiness outside in the experience
so you can see this fundamental mistake
has been done here that person is asking
how can my experiences be joyful it is
not possible experiences do not give us
any happiness they are
way to express our happiness
they are a way to
let the universe know that i am blissful
there is no happiness in my experience
just like there is no suffering in the
experience both of them are illusions
still i want to see the bliss outside
you know that will be the follow-up
questions yes i know i am blissful yes
it's not really making my experience
blissful the experience is the same
pathetic experience then that is that is
still there you know i became
enlightened whatever it means it is
still there my experience has not
changed the body has not changed people
have not changed the world probably
changed for worse and
my mind is same that is the biggest
trouble maker
how to get rid of that thing bring make
it more blissful make the bliss shine in
those experiences
there is a good solution to this
if you want to see the bliss that you
are outside what you are there is kind
of no outside you but
for the sake of this question we can
fall down to that level of duality and
we can say that yes your experience is
really different from the experiencer
and now you need to do a process you
need to do something to
transfer the bliss from here to there so
we have that kind of um
answer here also you see it is called a
conversational answer because the person
is not really grasping the first answer
and the person is still under this
illusion that i am different and the
experience is something different so in
that case what we suggest is you enter a
lifestyle which is about giving which is
about expressing the bliss that you are
how do you express the bliss that you
are by sharing the bliss by sharing the
happiness with others
i am terribly sad i am trying all day
you tell me to
go and share my happiness i am not happy
how can i make others happy here is
another belief here is another belief
that your mental state makes you do
things
no you have the choice to do whatever
you want
in your mental state does not matter we
are born like this
we are born very pure look at any child
he's crying he gets a toy he gets
something sweet to eat he's laughing
he's smiling he does not hold on to that
crying we are born pure like this what
happens is slowly we learn to keep the
sadness and let go of the joy this is
the human nature nowadays that the bad
moments the bad experiences bad memories
the pile up and the good stuff is
lost
looks like the universe is very
selective about these things you see i
never remember anything good in my life
but all these dramatic things they are
repeated again and again in front of
the screen that i am watching the screen
of the mind and you tell me to share joy
how is it even possible in this
circumstances so become a child again
let go of your conditioning that place
has too much importance on suffering and
happiness is something okay don't tell
anybody that you are happy somebody will
take away your happiness
this is how we are brought up hide your
prosperity because thieves are going to
rob it this is how the survival works
and so we use the same thing to on your
minds on your minds don't express too
much joy people will think you're mad
you just lost your job and you're
throwing a party they are going to lock
you up this is our conditioning
become a child
let go of the conditioning start sharing
the joy that you are you have only one
bread one piece of bread and your
conditioning tells you that you know
keep it don't tell anybody you have one
piece of bread and if you find one more
just kill that fellow and get the other
bread also you see this is your
conditioning you reverse it you take
that one piece of bread which is your
means of survival now you give half of
it to your brother your neighbor whoever
needs it
this is a way to break the condition
this is the way to share when you very
when you don't have anything
why don't we do that because we are
afraid that we are losing something yes
in case of bread probably you lose
something but you see if you eat the
whole bread you will die in two days if
you eat half of it you will die in one
day not much difference
but
the thing about happiness is when you
share it you lose nothing it is not
bread our survival does not depend on it
so very easy answer it's kind of
difficult to do you can start
bit by bit start sharing
the happiness cannot appear in the
experience by doing or getting you need
to be you need to be the bliss and then
it shows up in your behavior and then it
is expressed and it is reflected from
others you make others happy they will
make you happy you may make others sad
they will ensure that you remain sad for
the rest of your life
expressing is the key express the bliss
that you are
forget about your conditioning that i am
not blissful you are blissful look at
look at your true nature it is always
blissful unconditionally happy
unconditionally loving
there can be follow-up questions to this
day i have no ability to share my bliss
also you see i have nobody who is ready
to take my half rotten bread also
and this is a result of your selfishness
your loneliness
is a result of your selfishness now you
need to correct it it's very simple
nobody's with you because they got
nothing from you this is human nature
somebody stays with somebody else as
long as they are getting something from
there nobody is going to stay with you
for giving anything you see that is
spiritual quality ordinary people they
don't have this quality they cannot give
they can only take
and you have also done the same thing
still you are worrying you know not
worrying actually you're doubting this
thing i cannot do it because nobody is
there to take it it is simply because
i was very selfish i never gave anything
to anybody and therefore there is nobody
now there is nobody even asking me
because they already know the answer
that he will say no this is a big
problem now here you know somebody may
think that i'm asking them to go and do
the charity no never do that
never pay money to the unknown
organizations
the whole system is corrupt whole
humanity is corrupt do not pay money to
beggars you you have just extended his
suffering by one more day it's okay to
die and so on you know we can use our
common sense here and see that giving
objects giving money multiplies
suffering you give some money to a poor
person yes he is going to be happy for a
few minutes then he will come back to
you i need more money for tomorrow now i
need more money for marriage of my
daughter i need more money because i
want a big mansion and i i heard that
you just give it away so i just i'm just
asking you what have you done here is
you made a dependent
and dependency is the kind of suffering
very soon he will learn that you lied
you cannot give him every day and that
sweetness will turn into bitterness many
people will try to take advantage of you
or he does not want the money returned
i borrow from him every day he never
asked me for returning the money good
you know a good source of exploitation
here i can exploit this person for as
long as i want this will happen to you
so what do you do when you give away the
material things
you multiply the suffering
it may look like that yes charity is
good thing no it is not
similarly for service it is kind of
middle ground here sometimes you need
you need to serve and sometimes you need
to avoid serving so again big
organizations big names
these branded stuff
do not serve under them
probably you'll never find anybody who
says like this who teaches like this
it is my experience it kind of amounts
to nothing it has to be one to one it
has to be your effort you learn nothing
you go to a crowd of thousand people and
do some kind of service
you are not going to change this
guaranteed who knows what happens to
whatever you have done who knows
you need to do it whenever there is an
opportunity that is the rule of
servicing service that
do not go and hunt for an opportunity to
serve let the opportunity come to you
so you are left with nothing here but to
give away your bliss you have nothing i
i banned everything now you cannot do
charity you cannot spend money you
cannot you see
this is our
ignorance that we think that this is how
i need to be useful for people no
this is useless waste of time you need
to directly share the joy you need to
directly share the bliss it can be a cup
of tea also you see these are symbolic
things nobody will talk to you only for
a cup of tea no the cup of tea is
symbolic here but i'm offering you a
little bit that i have it need not be
send a smiley on the phone good enough
you shared your happiness that's all
you spent whole of your life trying to
get happiness from objects from people
from relations from your government
what kind of person will want that
and from achievements from intellectual
achievements you have done that for
whole of your life imagine the amount of
karmic stuff it has produced
can you imagine
it has produced a whole himalayan
mountain that is what is wrong with
humanity now they are paying it back
and not only now
they will keep coming and they will keep
paying it back
isn't this illusion amazing
i'm sometimes afraid of calling it an
illusion because it's so real the karmic
law is probably the strongest law of the
mind
of the illusion hardly anybody knows
what it is and we are bound by this love
how you do the good things do the good
things you will be
you will get rid of the karmic stuff
when i came to know of it no it will not
it will just postpone your suffering
it is like i tell you that okay eat this
chocolate enjoy this chocolate after
that you are going to get five whips
whip lashes do you call it enjoyment do
you call it happiness this is how your
actions work
we have spent our whole lives expecting
happiness from these things
there that are outside me that are in
the illusion and now
i suddenly want to reverse it it is
going to take a lot of time
you see it all sounds pessimistic but
you have seen the light now that is
optimistic
millions and billions of will never see
this start now start breaking the bonds
now do not ask for happiness do not try
to turn your experience into a joyful
experience because that's what you want
the wanting is the trouble isn't it what
what does your real self want you know
real self means the experiencer what do
you really want as an experiencer the
answer is very simple nothing
now why don't you try to
emulate bring it forward in your
behaviour also
let it reflect in the behaviour also i
use i don't want anything see what
happens you know it try to implement it
do it
you know experiment with it
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