Suffering & Desires

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dKycBUc-ohE

monika is asking the experiencer witness

is the suffering but how will suffering

end the realization that i am not the

one who suffers ends the suffering and

the suffering itself is an illusion

that makes it that realization makes it

as good as

not existing so i never

suffer this creature seems to suffer but

that is only a play that is an

illusion it not only suffers it also

enjoys

and

that happiness is also illusion

so you need to realize that there is no

suffering

so there is no need to end it

or it will never end because it never

started you cannot end something which

has not started so it is not really

present

however in day-to-day life the suffering

is present

and then

normal everyday solutions should be used

to

minimize it

as long as there is an attachment to the

world to the body to the pain to the

pleasure there will be suffering so

complete removal of the attachment frees

this creature from

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this kind of experience the dual

experience

however that is very boring in my

opinion

so a good way is to simply accept that

in the duality in this illusion there

will be both pain and pleasure there

will be both happiness and suffering i

am unaffected by the happiness i am

unaffected by the suffering i am the

screen on which this movie this drama is

being played and there has to be

all the colors

all the emotions in the movie because

this is a complete movie whole and

complete so this

very beautiful understanding

will make you peaceful instead of

becoming active

instead of struggling to end the

suffering which is itself a suffering

isn't it

trying to

put off a fire that is burning on the

screen there is no real fire there the

only picture of fire on the screen now

it does not matter how much water you

throw on it it will keep burning it is

not real that must be realized and stop

throwing water on it enjoy the movie you

are the enjoyer of the movie

you are the blissful background on which

all the illusory

events are happening

those who have this knowledge they

accept happiness

and suffering equally they do not

differentiate between the two if you are

the actor

a tragic role is as good as comedy role

there is no difference it's all fake

so remain established in the knowledge

and the knowledge

will end the suffering

when it is asking names and forms are

always the same and the illusion can be

logically true no it is not true and

they are always changing

like many of the master says

that both the attachment and aversion

cause suffering if there is attachment

to something some pleasure some kind of

happiness

it is bound to cause suffering but if

there is aversion from suffering

aversion from something

that will also cause suffering so what

actually ends the suffering is the

acceptance that it will be like this

and that it will also change it is

impermanent

happiness is impermanent suffering is

impermanent so there is no point in

trying to change

because there is no doer it happens

automatically

those who are in awareness

will never suffer those who lose sight

of all this knowledge which is given to

you

by the grace

if you remember this knowledge you will

never ask such questions again

mary is saying

use it through fulfilling desires is

possible to finish the human life but

desires can never be truly fulfilled

there is always a form of desire which

images

desires can express themselves so many

ways it is truly needed to fulfill them

yes yes yes you see there are many kinds

of desires

what i am asking is you know leave the

human form as soon as possible grow out

of it this is the lower form even lower

forms are animal forms and other forms

but

here the suffering is at the peak

so you want to cross it quickly now

the desires can be related to the human

form

and then there are infinite desires that

are that may not be related to the human

form you see

like eating food

is a big desire that is related to the

body human body human form

and the sexual urges

related to the human body very big

desire

and there are more like owning land and

owning property and becoming rich and

powerful and so on you see having family

children

all these desires they are related to

the body in this world cross it as soon

as possible

by proper means obviously do not take

shortcuts

fulfill as much as possible you see even

uh nominal fulfillment just for namesake

is good

so that you don't incarnate to

for the corneal desires

now there will be a lot of desires which

are which do do not need human form for

example if you you want to become a

singer

or you want to become a creator of some

kind you say create this or create that

now that does not need a human form that

is a higher desire we say so

yoni's are the wombs that are

immediately above the human they are of

these kinds they are the performers and

they are the creators

sanskrit has

all the names if anybody wants to search

even before you reach the dev uni there

will be some

intermediate unis your desires can be

fulfilled there and if if there are more

because there will be more is infinite

series of desires but the quality will

be different then you won't need to sing

or you don't need to create there are

more alternatives more freedom

so the desires keep on changing and the

form also keeps on changing so from the

animal body to the human body to the

light body to the nobody it is all

possible but

desires never leave you yes

the desire is the fuel that runs the

universe if it stops

there will be nothing no manifestation

will be there

so

just like i said except

accept that this is the law here

surrender if what you want is impossible

then you'll never achieve it

what do you want is

fulfillment of all desires and they

should not come again you see which is

impossible so you will remain in

suffering

the least that can be done is you know

stop the repetition of the desires

and there is a mechanism in the nature

you know if it repeats if the

fulfillment of the desires

happens a single desire happens many

times

then you lose that desire you lose

interest in that it becomes boring it is

already there the mechanism is so

perfect

that the desires that are fulfilled

frequently

they go away so you can avoid that too

much repetition of mechanically

fulfilling the same desire again and

again you can do it for fun for some

time and then leave it because it is

already satisfied

so it will leave you and then there will

be new ones

so the trick is to ensure that you get

the higher desires not the lower for

that you need to change your tendencies

and evolve

and the only way to evolve is the

spiritual way

so those who are expert in fulfilling

the desires they are called tantrics the

people in the local field they are

expert in these and

we on the path of knowledge we let it

happen naturally

because we know that you know there is

no hurry really

and we know that once you are on a path

you have a guru it is going to happen

very quickly anyway it is a effortless

path so you will find something amazing

here that

all your karmic stuff will happen very

very quickly if you desire a thing you

will get it quickly and then you will

get bored of it very quickly also if you

desire a relation you will get it

in two or three days you will get bored

same day sometimes

then

if you want a career or some arts and

something you see few years it will be

gone something new will come up this

will this is the life of a seeker it's

very dynamic

it is not like that of ordinary person

who works as a clerk for 30 years is

never bored who sells one thing again

and again and again every day for 12

hours

for the whole of his life

is a seeker like this

no

even though some may prefer this kind of

lifestyle but there is always

something going on in the background

there's the speeding of the evolution if

things are speeding up you are on the

right path

nothing is happening in your life same

old boring life

you should change your group

you need to fulfill in short i'm saying

you need to fulfill the desires to get

out of the human form

the human desires must be fulfilled as

quickly as possible

and then there will be finer desires

they will get fulfilled they will become

so fine they may not look like a desire

but they are delegated to your own forms

these things very few people know