Abidance

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5whyWMZ1OQE

okay well he's saying being the

experiencer is easy and abiding is hard

i don't understand you know because

abiding is being the experiencer isn't

it abiding means what you be the

experiencer don't be any experience can

you tell me the difference between these

two things

being the experience and abiding

probably there is some fault in your

understanding that is why you think it

is hard what do you mean by being the

experiencer you want to meet my binding

varun is saying i mean the experiencer

is

always there abiding is hard ok tell me

what are you doing you must be doing

something that's why it is hard can you

tell me what are you doing i forget to

remember

when you remember what do you do to

remember can you tell me forgetting is

easy i know it happens automatically how

do you remember it you were listening i

remind myself that i am the experience

who is this i if you are the experiencer

can you remind yourself does the

experience remind itself i am the

experiencer

what how do you remind yourself is a

mental activity

yeah so who does it you are the

experiencer you don't do anything and

the eyes mental activity who who is

doing it then who is bringing on the

awareness can you tell me

point to that thing show me

don't use the word i and this you are on

the path of knowledge now yeah the mind

we say that it is happening there is no

you who is doing the hard work

that is also an illusion that it is hard

there is no breed doing any work there

experiencer is experience it like you

said it does nothing to remind anything

and the mind does it automatically where

is the effort who is doing the effort

which effort

just before you are aware what effort do

you find think about it

why do we say that awareness is

effortless why do we say fartless effort

did you understand what is awareness

yeah yes

this

you are right now tell me who is doing

it who is finding it hard

it is

the memory that

is a kind of experience you are

partially right you see it is only

thought that says it is hard can the

thought bring on the awareness

it can never bring on the awareness

it comes on its own and in frustration

this ego this person says eyes very hard

it never comes when i want it that is

garbage these words are not true it

comes automatically it comes

effortlessly it goes effortlessly

nobody's in charge of it

so what is the point of saying be being

awareness like he told me that look

there is a schedule you told me what is

the point of that you see that is the

seeding the mind the seeding the memory

with this intention like somebody said

no karish said intention

intention brings it on how much how much

time and how much effort does it take to

for the intention to manifest nothing

see things are happening effortlessly

already in nature there is a

afterthought that

it is not there and i am helpless to do

anything about it so it is hard yeah

obviously there is nobody there to bring

it on so

yes it is hard then it is impossible to

bring the awareness

impossible what are you trying to do

stop doing hold the intention let the

seed do the thing let the seed do the

work do you get my point um

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let go

so

people say how to become aware in the

dream i said you cannot

impossible while in waking state you

make an intention the mind does it there

are processes in the mind they will

like an alarm they will ring it

totally nobody's there nobody's doing

anything here the guru puts the seed

that's all he is doing you see and the

seed does the rest of the job it grows

if you want to do something because you

know you are probably restless there you

know what can i do about awareness so

what what do i suggest you you drink the

juice of it you drink the nectar of

awareness it has to be sweet if it is

awareness it will be sweet do you feel

the sweetness of it can you taste the

sweetness of it like it's poetic but you

know we don't have any other world it

feels very nice when you're bright and

clear sweet the fragrance of it hold on

to this if you want to do something hold

on to this

as the mind gets the taste of it it will

develop affinity for awareness so

then

that means you know there will be more

occasions of awareness it will do that

this is how it works you see we hijack

this we hack into this kind of beautiful

mechanism in the mind the more it likes

it the more it does it this is what it

is you see there is a reward in being in

awareness that everybody must have

noticed not a worldly reward but it is

there utilize this thing if you want

don't try to bring on the awareness when

it is there the seed has worked you know

the guru's

intention is working here first

initially you need that the guru will

tell you all the time

be aware

that puts a little bit of programming in

there and this programming starts

executing and now you know the software

terms

very easy to explain so you hold on to

this thing bring the nectar of it and

the mind will get addicted to it and

then it will like expand

according to our schedule

you will think i'm progressing very

nicely i'm doing something it is

happening

on its own the program only builds an

intention now graham must be you know

getting it clearly the program is there

only to plant a seed i mean not the

program the schedule

of 12 months and all just to plant the

seed put the intention recently i

shouldn't produce the video

based on our satsang that

which happened it is in hindi actually

those who can understand hindi should go

and watch that video and all your doubts

will be cleared probably baron

understands hindi a little bit you can

watch it ashwin's video on sakshi bhav

so this is called cultivation for some

reason because you see

you can you cannot put the seed and you

cannot pull the seed into a plant then

you cannot cannot go to the field and

pull the plant

and make an effort to turn into a tree

no

there's nothing like this possible

okay vines has a question i have one

worldly question please help i have one

one month old daughter and i listen in

one of the podcasts of the first six

months being important for child causal

body gets attached to the physical body

in this duration

as a seeker is there anything i can do

so we can we as a family can evolve

what can you do

i think

the natural mechanism of

attachment of the causal body to the

physical will happen anyway

even if you do something if you don't do

anything it will happen now

at this time

the causal body is least worried about

knowledge or evolution there's not this

priority isn't it the memory bridge is

forming and that is its priority is it

getting the control of the body or not

that is the priority there is

competition from other causal bodies

so

what can you do you see take care of the

child have good intentions

pray

and

bring the child into satsang let's see

what happens

and i'll tell you one thing

you have no control at all on your

family they will all go their own way

you don't have control over one process

in the mind which you call as my mind

you want to control all these minds

which you call my family isn't that

ignorance

what can you do about the child you know

don't

indoctrinate the child don't put

anything false in there which

can be harmful in the future

but there is no guarantee at all try to

look at the tendency you know six months

is very very young actually in two or

three years you will be able to get a

hint of the tendencies of the child look

for the spiritual tendencies and then

you can plan ahead

you will need to complete the education

and so on escape from that survival is

the first priority not the spiritual

evolution for a child

after 35 years of age we worry about the

evolution spiritual evolution because by

the time the the root and all these

layers are well formed

now another layer of intellect is

can be awakened by the grace of the guru

field only nothing can awaken it the

indoctrination is the poison

we can do some effort to speed up the

evolution by properly checking the

tendencies of the child and

at the right time

put the child on a spiritual path

according to the tendencies of the child

i am not saying you push them into

path of knowledge no we should not we

never push people into path of knowledge

look at the tendencies is the child

ready or not yes you can always

put some seeds there look this is

knowledge this is ignorance no guarantee

that they will get it although i've seen

some miracles with children in the in

the homes of people who are doing this

program they are progressing much faster

than them their parents

amazing isn't it but

yes there is no guarantee once they grow

up you know once they become two or

three years old just let me know about

their tendencies and will think about it