https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTFMzYW_fCg
Desperate Measures are suggested on PO
gay for a secret to live alone to avoid
influences
can you share the Dynamics of how
influence propagates like small activity
like accepting gifts from someone or
just visiting someone it's a very big
topic again you see what can I tell you
is that as soon as you take something
from somebody you are bound to that
person in that event this much you
should remember the other Dynamics very
complicated they are very complicated if
you remember this much that as soon as
you take something from somebody you
will need to return it that return means
either your life will be diverted in a
different direction or you will need to
take another birth you will be born
again just to fulfill that
duty of yours which you have and
knowingly knowingly taken from somebody
else so it can be a gift yes it can be
food it can be water it can be simply
visiting somebody or touching somebody
and that is the influence
you will already see that we are in a
big net of influences we have taken for
most of our Lives we have taken from
everybody so miserably trapped here just
like I was saying few minutes ago that
99.99 people they only know taking they
do not know giving and they are forever
trapped actually they will go up and
down with the illusion they will never
come out of it is not wrong it's not a
bad thing this is how the nature Works
some will avoid this trap of taking and
they will rise above the others start
giving whatever you have first you earn
it and start giving it away best thing
to give is knowledge obviously and then
even if you accept something this is
minuscule hardly matters so for example
I don't take anything I don't drink
water in other places in somebody's
house I don't visit anybody I I'll do it
only if I can give that person 10 times
more than they are giving me so the
balance is always in my favor
especially avoid taking money because
money is a shortcut of enslaving your
causal body yes somebody's serving you
that is their love isn't it they're
giving you their love money means okay
take my money and be my slave that is
not love throwing money at somebody I
don't find loving so I never take money
whatever it gives yes you know it is
just the thing that you bought from the
market for 500 rupees cost 50 rupees
actually
his packaging makes it 500 isn't it
branding okay I'll take it anyhow it is
produced produced means it's already
rotten snatched from the mother nature
okay give it to me I'll at least give it
back to Mother Nature if it is not
plastic you see recycled immediately
usually whatever I get get from people
like
always distribute them to somebody else
it's not mine so that is the biggest
thing that you need to be concerned
about about influences from others do
not take from others
there are three kinds of taking the
first is physical like money gives and
the body the body of a female
and service somebody does something for
you and the second taking is Through The
Voice through your speech somebody
Praises you don't take it somebody
blames you accuses you abuses you don't
take it somebody says you are great okay
leave it there don't take it somebody
says you're beautiful no no they don't
really mean it they want something from
you and so on don't take the speech then
the third is through the thoughts and
you will come to know this only when you
advance spiritually people are sending
you all kinds of thoughts don't take
them so avoid three kinds of taking and
you will be freed from this infinite net
of
influences dependencies and so on
what do you see in the world only taking
is give and take only that's why they
will never come out of there
so this is not Path of Knowledge and The
Path of Knowledge you do whatever you
want to do we accept everything
but on the tantric paths don't even
touch anybody
Leila is asking how about gifts from
parents yes don't take it why do you
want give some parents tell me all you
want is food and clothes and shelter and
that is not taking that is their
responsibility isn't it their
responsibility so there are ways to even
pay back those things which your parents
have done
so if you run whatever you call it in
Sanskrit I don't know any English words
for that
you need to pay it back by serving your
parents back little with symbolic
service if you want if you don't want to
serve for them for whole life and
mentally you return it back whatever
they have done for you
and the best way to not take is not to
be born as humans as soon as you are
born from the humans you take milk from
the mother the bond is formed you take
food and protection from the father bond
is formed you see you take toys from
your older brother the bond is formed
then you take education from your
teacher one is found although you pay a
little bit but still the bond is there
both are bound so on you see
because and the worst kind of bond is
marriage
that is the worst
he says can getting Knowledge from
someone also bind us yes if the
knowledge is of worldly kind it will
bind you if it is of the spiritual kind
and given by the guru then it will free
you very easy
do you feel bound when you receive the
self-realization or anything or any
other basic knowledge oh you feel free
the guru has absolutely nothing to give
he only pretends that he is giving
you are whole and complete already did
you get anything extra no
you actually took
two hashed all the ignorance from you I
mean the guru is not taking it to keep
it you know he takes it to destroy it
so a different kind of taking bearing is
called bearing so now you know who you
are you're not covered by all this
rotten garments of all kinds so no
actually this topic goes so deep that it
will take many hours for me to explain
because sometimes the guru will form the
bonds with the student because he knows
that if there is no bond between me and
the student the student is not going to
actually love me not going to respect me
will never progress so this Guru traps
the student in a relationship and which
lasts for many many lifetimes so till
the student grows enough the guru is
with the student all the time
so that the guru and student relation is
the only one that is purest and will
last forever actually whatever forever
means
you know we are already one forever so
there are that is the ultimate relation
of Oneness
but there are fake relations now and the
least fake is the guru and the student
that is selfless so I Guru is a very
very difficult creature to understand I
could not understand even one Guru of
mine properly and it causes a lot of
fear in their minds of students that
Guru is ungraspable so what the guru
does is you know assumes a smaller form
where now will become pretends to be
ordinary human now it is grasp graspable
I learned this from ishwar Puri who is
my Guru that's why I say Guru lies all
the time all lies only if he present
presence his real form to you you will
run away
so what what does the guru do becomes a
little innocent
idiotic person now people accept him yes
he's just like me so whatever is needed
we do it isn't it but the guru will free
you nobody else everybody will bind you
only the guru will free you
and that is why so much importance the
guru is placed above the gods why the
gods also bind you
ask them anything any favor and you will
be you will enter in a very very long
term relationship with that God with the
deity of yours that is so long you can
say in finite gone so even the guru
won't touch this thing if it fails then
you're afraid then the guru will pick
you up do we touch these people who are
who are in the devotional paths and all
this you know worshiping deities and all
I never touched them
I tell them look The Path of Knowledge
is the worst kind you will not get
anything is intellectual garbage love
your God love your deity surrender to
that and believe them something or
somehow they will come out of it after
one million years and then I'll be in a
position to help them
are we not already bound to our parents
how how to get out of this bondage yes
you are bound to your parents since
probably thousands of births not only
your bound to parents you're bound to
your children your bound to your
siblings and neighbors and your
community your religion your race
everything it's all a bondage many
layered multi-layered bondage
how do you get out of this bondage
realize that you're the one who is free
realize that this creature is bound this
illusory individual is bound you are
free you are Freedom yourself very easy
Mary is saying how to return to clean
the touching written or claim the
touching bond is it possible without
rebirth yes it is possible forgiving I
made a mistake by taking something from
you or expecting something from you
mistake now mentally forgive mentally
break the bonds because the bondages of
Mind only not of the body you don't need
to do anything physical to break the
bond and if your mind is not convinced
like this you can ritualize you can make
a small ritual and use that ritual to
break the body it can be cutting of a
string burning of a rope and so on
sometimes I prescribe this kind of
rituals and they work because mind only
in solution the illusion works in the
illusion
so there are occult ways to break all
the bonds although it is not recommended
but in extreme cases when the bondage
becomes painful we do it yes like he was
asking that will the guru do something
which is beyond my perception yes
don't even know what the guru is doing
behind your back although you need to
ask for it if it is not your wish the
guru will never do it even if you are
suffering the guru will not do it the
guru will produce a hint do you want
this do you really want this again third
time I'm asking yes yes okay then take
it now who knows what happens after that
but the cleaning happens cleanup happens
how do we do it when you advance
spiritually how do you do it through
Detachment you form a bond with complete
Detachment and it is as good as no bond
No bondage
or you dip yourself in the bondage and
then you ask your Guru to pull you out
or you set up an intention alarm clock
to pull you out
I have done these kind of experiments
where kind of energy draining you come
out of this bounded relation with a
significant loss of energy life force
your body will age a little bit more
your health will go down your mental
health will suffer your intelligence
will be little less and that is the
price we pay off for diving into a bound
relation with somebody
so it better produce some good results
like it should produce a result where
the other person has progressed
spiritually at the cost of your time and
energy otherwise even the guru field
won't support this kind of Adventure
probably I told you too much
whippin is saying isn't that the
ultimate giving returning to environment
as and ultimately everyone everyone has
taken from environment that should
balance all no death is a small part of
what is happening as give and take only
the physical layer in the lowest layer
of the being is returned to the
environment you know that isn't it the
higher layers they are still receiving
they are receiving since many lifetimes
so what do we say the real Liberation
not not we some people will say this
other parts
the real Liberation is when the causal
body is dissolved because you see there
limited to the causal body they have
seen only this much so they say it like
vipin is saying no isn't it all Freedom
after death because his knowledge is
limited only to the physical body he is
not even seeing beyond that so people
assume okay the causal body is the
ultimate and if it is dissolved you know
freedom
now I'll tell you the truth there is no
freedom for the creature you are free
not this human thing or any other thing
that will evolve out of it it will be
always be bound against the layers after
layers they will be dropped and assumed
and so on you see who knows what happens
here
is very very complicated scene here but
one thing is certain that which is bound
will remain bound that which is Free
Will Remain free
enjoy
Praveen is asking I have heard that
giving and taking both have consequences
led to rebirth there is right yes that's
what I'm explaining is yes giving also
his consequences because the other
person is bound Now who is the other
person you
you are all all creatures are within you
so the ideal thing is to not give and
not take is it possible no so the next
ideal thing is to make it beneficial for
everybody isn't it that is the beauty
you see that is where the fun is becomes
so greedy that everybody benefits from
this giving and taking this is called
the borisator he is ready to do anything
to liberate others in liberating all
nobody is liberated
so not too very too much you see the
only thing is you should take care that
it's not causing suffering of any kind
if you are bound and it is causing
suffering get rid of it immediately
there are more you know much better ways
to be bound and enjoy
the bondage is not always bad but
ultimately it turns you see breaks
ultimately it turns into suffering
because impermanence isn't it Duality
oscillation pendulum anything that goes
up will go down and then suffering will
come so let's not take it too high so
that you don't need to go too low and
you can ride this wave of high and low
with equanimity
is there any other way to live no this
is the only way to live nothing
dissolves nothing liberates you are that
which you are already
now it's all a play and how beautifully
you play
how beautiful you execute your karma is
your skill now your spiritual growth
seen my day
Lala is saying cycle of rebirth seems
unavoidable no you can leave your
birth and death today if you want isn't
it yes the bondage is unavoidable but
you see the death and birth is just one
kind of bondage actually you see from
the point of view of the Brahman it is
taking forms it is producing words and
all you see creatures and so on like we
say it roughly isn't that the bondage
that it has to do it anyhow but no that
is you should not we should not use our
intellect here to conclude something
like this it is simply happening and the
Brahman is totally okay with it it's a
play for it
amen nothing is bound nothing is
liberated nobody is taking birth there
is no rebirth nothing is happening so
this human rebirth totally avoidable
totally unnecessary the goal of the
human birth is to get rid of the human
birth evolve from here
once you are in a good position you see
like you become an angel God or whatever
higher being then stop worrying about it
you know what is it what is what is the
value of freedom and bondage there when
you are in Ultimate Bliss in your all
desires are fulfilled instantly it is
like a meaning like meaningless
existence also but you don't need any
freedom there you're not you don't feel
bound there in finite Freedom so you see
the creature finds a meaning by escaping
the bondage by Escaping The Struggle
otherwise there is no meaning in this
life so it knowingly comes down and
takes bound form like the human so that
answers your many questions like we are
so powerful we are like knowledgeable
and wise and all
and still we come down as this tail is
hairless monkey For What and the real
Adventure is in getting trapped and then
getting released
you must have seen this in the movies
you see the hero is helplessly trapped
helplessly about to be killed and then
he's rescued or something he does
something marvelous
Great Adventure rescues it himself and
the heroine also and kills the villain
bad guys in the process
so
the falling is not really falling it is
an adventure
the problem is it is happening in
darkness you don't know what you are
doing that is causing real suffering you
see the the fake illusion produces real
suffering which we don't like
so there is no rebirth nothing to be
avoided it is your adventure realize
this enjoy
Praveen is saying either we have to give
or take to sustain in both ways we are
indulging ourselves in cycle of death
and work how we can escape this side
it's mere the realization of Detachment
from ones of works just now I answered
it you are Never Bound this form is
bound and it is necessary for it to be
bound otherwise it will not remain a
form what is a form it is formed which
means there are some laws there are some
rules there is some substance and it has
to remain that way for most of the time
it cannot do this it cannot do that that
is what is all the bondage isn't it that
is what you call bondage and the cycle
of death and birth is one part of it you
don't even know what is deaf and birth
it is like scratching of the paint
repainting is something similar the
causal body is like a mountain and this
physical body is you know just dry leaf
on it comes and goes why do you worry so
much get the knowledge you don't need to
be detached knowledge produces
Detachment and once there is knowledge
everything is good there is no bondage
and there is no freedom I am already
bound and I am already free and I am
both and I'm all now I can indulge now
indulge totally there is nothing else to
do you are here for infinite amount of
time what will you do you are the whole
existence by doing everything we do
nothing isn't it
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