Surrendering to the Guru

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Is it better to surrender in front of a guru? 

on the other paths it is best to surrender to guru but on the path of knowledge you surrender everything except your intellect. You will never find this instruction anywhere else. This is very peculiar to our group, our system. Here never surrender the intellect. why is that? because these days 90% gurus are fake you need to use your intellect to find out who is fake who is not so, surrender everything except your intelligence and is it going to be harmful for me. No the guru wants you to be intelligent. Actually the guru wants you to have critical thinking abilities and discretion, discrimination and if you surrender your intelligence also the guru is going to beat you like hell. The guru is going to put you under many tests to check whether you're using your intelligence or simply obeying like a donkey and if you keep obeying feet licking behavior now be ready for the punishments guru will check at every step whether you are understanding it. Is it becoming your knowledge or you're simply parroting the guru that must be checked. So, never surrender the intellect to the guru on the path of knowledge. The guru will never like it you can surrender your body and surrender money or whatever you have your property and all and the guru will never take it

he wants you to give it up but nobody will take it only the attachment is the problem isn't it not your money not your body your attachment is the problem. it is, it is a very deep subject so you brought it up but you say it is possible to write at least three books on surrender only what happens here how different kind of people surrender different differently. for example men and women they surrender. differently it's a very deep topic to what extent people surrender to the guru as long as it is talking about the favorite deity as long as the guru is

talking from his favorite book. you see the scripture yes i surrender to the guru as soon as he says something which is true now this guru is not good enough he's a fake guru may some people simply pretend to surrender they never surrender so the guru checks it just today i heard a story from somebody you know one guru told his student who said guruji i love you so much i'll do everything for you he gave him a cup of dark liquid he said okay okay drink this poison is fine and and the student was actually surprisingly really surrendered he drank it and everybody was kind of shocked now what my number is also coming no i'm in the

queue and what happened was nothing happened to that fellow who drank the poison because it was not poison it was coca-cola that is poison only isn't it but no immediate effect

so test test only sometimes i ask you to surrender but i don't really want you to surrender be independentized be independent but i want to check whether you will become independent or not whether you will be able to fly or not so i need to test the wings and you are given something to do i am giving you you know i am giving people such a simple things you know correct your language correct your spelling put the full stop after the sentence and they don't do even that so this is the level of surrender we need to face and in in such a situation i am already seeing miracles even without surrender the miracles are happening because this path of knowledge is it does not demand total surrender you need to simply follow the minimal instructions and it is good now check the other parts you see check the other parts there there are trials and tests and we only have one test and people are afraid of it many people don't get in the program because there is a test there some people get into the program and after writing they come to know there is a test because you see who reads the

instruction who reads the manual these days you see simply jump so then they leave it those who appear in test it is a real thing then then they become the real disciples it is so simple isn't it i made it so simple because i know the life is going to test you anyhow so those who surrender they progress very very fast those who don't they will progress also but they will need to listen to a lot of you know they will need to drink the poison. poison of the bitter words. Desperate measures are suggested on poke for a seeker to live alone to avoid influences can you share the dynamics of how influence propagates like small activity

like accepting gift from someone or just visiting someone it's a very big topic again you see

what can i tell you is that as soon as you take something from somebody you are bound to that person in that event this much you should remember the other dynamics very complicated they are very complicated if you remember this much that as soon as you take something from somebody you will need to return it that return means either your life will be diverted in a different direction or you will need to take another birth you will be born again just to fulfill that duty of yours which you have unknowingly knowingly taken from somebody else so it can be a gift yes it can be food it can be water it can be simply visiting somebody or touching somebody and that is the influence you will already see that we are in a big net of influences we have taken for most of our lives we have taken from everybody so miserably trapped here just like i was saying few minutes ago that 99.99 people they only know taking they do not know giving and they are forever trapped actually they will go up and down with the illusion they will never come out of it is not wrong this is not a bad thing

this is how the nature works some will avoid this trap of taking and they will rise above the others start giving whatever you have first you earn it and start giving it away best thing to give is knowledge obviously and then even if you accept something as is minuscule hardly matters so for example i don't take anything i don't drink water in other places in somebody's house i don't visit anybody i'd i'll do it only if i can give that person 10 times more than they are giving me so the balance is always in my favor especially avoid taking money because money is a shortcut of enslaving your causal body here somebody's serving you that is their love isn't it they're giving you their love money means okay take my money and be my slave that is not love throwing money at somebody i don't find loving so i never take money what about gifts yes you know it is just the thing that you bought from the market for 500 rupees costs 50 rupees actually his packaging makes it 500 isn't it branding okay i'll take it anyhow it is produced produced means it's already rotten snatched from the mother nature okay give it to me i'll at least give it back to mother nature if it is not plastic you see recycled immediately usually whatever i get get from people i always distribute them to somebody else it's not mine so that is the biggest thing that you need to be concerned about about influences from others do not take from others there are three kinds of taking the first is physical like money gives and the body no body of a female and service somebody does something for you and the second taking is through the voice through your speech somebody praises you don't take it somebody blames you accuses you abuses you don't take it somebody says you are great okay leave it there don't take it somebody says you're beautiful no no they don't really mean it they want something from you and so on don't take the speech then the third is through the thoughts you will come to know this only when you advance spiritually that people are sending you all kinds of thoughts don't take them so avoid three kinds of taking and you will be freed from this infinite net of influences dependencies and so on what do you see in the world only taking is give and take only that's why they will never come out of there so this is not part of knowledge on the path of knowledge you do whatever you want to do we accept everything but on the tantric paths don't even touch anybody 

Can getting knowledge from someone also binders

yes if the knowledge is of worldly kind it will bind you. if it is of the spiritual kind and given by the guru then it will free you very easy do it do you feel bound when you receive

the self-realization or anything or any other basic knowledge. oh you feel free the guru has

absolutely nothing to give he only pretends that he is giving you are whole and complete

already did you get anything extra no the guru actually took the guru snatched all the ignorance from you i mean the guru is not taking it to keep it you know he takes it to destroy it so a different kind of taking bearing is called bearing so now you know who you are you're not covered by all this rotten garments of all kinds so no actually this topic goes so deep that it will take many hours for me to explain because sometimes the guru will for form the bonds with the student because he knows that if there is no bond between me and the student the student is not going to actually love me not going to respect me will never

progress so the guru traps the student in a relationship and which lasts for many many lifetimes so till the student grows enough the guru is with the student all the time so the guru and student relation is the only one that is purest and will last forever actually whatever forever means you know we are already one forever so there are that is the ultimate relation

of oneness but there are fake relations now and the least fake is the guru and the student that is selfless so i know guru is a very very difficult creature to understand i could not understand even one guru of mine properly and it causes a lot of fear in the minds of students that guru is ungraspable so what the guru does is you know assumes a smaller form

where now it become pretends to be ordinary human now it is grasp graspable you know i learned this from ishwar puri who is my guru that's why i say guru lies all the time all lies only if he present presents his real form to you you will run away so what what does the guru do becomes a little innocent idiotic person now people accept him yes he's just like

me so whatever is needed we do it isn't it but the guru will free you nobody else everybody will bind you only the guru will free you and that is why so much importance guru is placed above the gods why the gods also bind you ask them anything any favor and you will be you will enter in a very very long term relationship with that god with the deity of yours that is

so long you can say infinite gone so even the guru won't touch this thing if it fails then you're afraid then the guru will pick you up do we touch these people who are in the devotional paths and all these you know worshiping deities and all i never touch them

i tell them look the path of knowledge is the worst kind you will not get anything is intellectual garbage love your god love your deity surrender to that and we leave them

something or somehow they will come out of it after one million years and then i'll be in a position to help them.

Are we not already bound to our parents? How do we get out of this bondage?

Yes you are bound to your parents since probably thousands of births not only you're bound to parents you're bound to your children you're bound to your siblings and neighbors and your community your religion your race everything it's all a bondage very layered multi-layered bondage how do you get out of this bondage realize that you're the one who is free

realize that this creature is bound this illusory individual is bound you are free you are freedom yourself very easy 

How to return to clean the touching? Return or clean the touching bond is it possible without rebirth?

Yes it is possible forgiving i made a mistake by taking something from you or expecting something from you mistake now mentally forgive mentally break the bonds because the bondage is of mind only not of the body you don't need to do anything physical to break the bond and if your mind is not convinced like this you can ritualize you can make a small ritual and use that ritual to break the bond it can be cutting of a string burning of a rope and so on sometimes i prescribe this kind of rituals and the work is because mind only is illusion the illusion works in the illusion so there are occult ways to break all the bonds although it is not recommended but in extreme cases when the bondage becomes painful we do it yes like he was asking that will the guru do something which is beyond my perception yes you don't even know what the guru is doing behind your back although you need to ask for it if it is not your wish the guru will never do it even if you are suffering the guru will not do it the guru will produce a hint do you want this do you really want this again third time i'm asking yes yes okay then take it now who knows what happens after that but the cleaning happens cleanup happens how do we do it when you advance spiritually how do you do it through detachment you form a bond with complete detachment and it is as good as no bond no bondage or you dip yourself in the bondage and then you ask your guru to pull you out

or you set up an intention alarm clock to pull you out of i have done these kind of experiments that kind of energy draining you come out of this bounded relation with a significant loss of energy life force your body will age a little bit more your health will go

down your mental health will suffer your intelligence will be a little less and that is the price we pay off for diving into a bound relation with somebody so it better produce some good results like it should produce a result where the other person has progressed spiritually at the cost of your time and energy otherwise even the guru field won't support this kind of adventure probably i told you too much