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uh hi hello
yeah hello
so uh
i don't know like if i should start with
an intro or something but i just want to
ask a couple of things yes please go
ahead
so uh
when you like consciously looking at the
loops that your life um are getting into
and i mean the cycles that are repeating
and then you try to get out of it and
then you are observing you are noticing
what things you've done uh i mean things
that you could have done better or in
terms of something that
may give you a better result later
so even though you understand the cycles
even though you do the right things even
though you know that is right for you in
the longer term you are going to have
a better feel out of it
but being in that movement if there's a
bit of um you know the feel
where you know that this
is troubling you is is something that
your body that your mind is not
accepting
and
there could be a more comfortable way to
do it um so yeah so uh we don't do i
mean we usually we tend to do was more
comfortable and not was more
uh
of a conscious selection so being aware
of both the possibilities no matter what
you do
the right thing or the less lesser right
thing you you all i mean you always feel
stuck there so what is that kind of what
is that process why it happens
yes very good question right we often
tend to be lazy instead of doing that
which is most required we do that which
is uh minimal we just uh instead of kill
instead of cleaning the house we simply
move the
garbage under the carpet most of the
time in our lives
so why is that
there are natural processes in the mind
that are designed to conserve energy
this is the
human um or animal tendency that
we are not built to work
too much more than needed this is how it
is
mother nature favors
efficiency not hard work so you will
always find this tendency in everybody
that and they do not do
the whole
job at one time they do not do that
which is needed for complete
to complete
that work or to take the
whole step
they do the minimal and that is because
every layer in the mind is trying to
conserve energy it does not want to do
something which is absolutely not
urgent
so it is this is the
cause for
not doing your best
just doing the patchwork
everybody everybody suffers from this
thing
so what is the solution the solution is
to become aware that this is happening
and to take take baby steps towards
doing that which is most needed to solve
that situation solve that problem to
complete to achieve to reach the
achievement
of your goal whatever it is
so
it may not happen in one day it may not
happen in two days or three days but
you can take one step at a time fully
knowing that there is a resistance there
to work hard fully knowing this
we simply start somewhere then take the
next step and the next step
slowly you will build up the momentum to
do the whole thing properly
and it must be done beautifully all the
actions must be done beautifully it can
take some time but
that is most satisfactory
so hopefully that was your question and
hopefully my answer was useful
yeah yeah i mean
part of it but one more thing
so if i try to resonate with nature so
nature takes
since you said
nature mother nature taught us to do
things
with the minimal actions but like the
nature itself built over millions of
years and its progress seems to be
unmeasurable if we talk into smaller
time duration time frame
so if the nature is teaching us if the
nature is trying to synchronize with us
i mean or we are or the other way we are
trying to synchronize the nature and
adapt its uh habitat or characteristics
into our life
so
instead of you know choosing the smaller
smallest part to make it done quickly
should our body and mind is already
you know aligned in such a way to
perform things that takes longer and
shouldn't
we already be having this ability to um
to bear with the times taken and not get
and not get uh you know stressed about
not seeing the results
yes
you're talking about the long term
planning which very few people do it
they keep thinking about it but they do
not plan it there is a difference
between thinking and planning
the planning must be broken down into
manageable
steps and
you can observe mother nature
and nature does everything incrementally
it does not do everything suddenly so
incremental evolution is the way
and it tries many many
things at once
the mother nature is doing it like this
that it tries many possibilities at the
same time and whatever
is successful that is given more
attention
so if you prefer that kind of
uh
planning then break down your goal into
small steps
and try many things
to reach that
uh
stepping stones a step complete the
first step
try a few things see what works
so that that is the natural way and
there is an artificial way that you
imagine the whole process exactly
and precisely and then you hope to
achieve it uh very in a very mechanical
way that i'll do this and only this
nothing else
and that usually fails and that is why
people don't uh
do it
so
in such a mechanical way they simply
if there is something to be done they
simply go out of their house first
they say let's let's try let's just
reach there
reach that place and then we'll see what
happens and the next step
so that is
more like mother nature and we are built
to do like that
we don't plan our whole life in one day
and then we take steps to
walk on that plan we never do this
it is we take things as they come that
is the most natural way to
keep your goal in your mind whether
you're proceeding to your goal
or not
and then
do that which is necessary today at this
time this is the formula for success
so i think uh
i mean i'm just talking about myself
personally here so i don't want to be
successful or i don't have a thought
about being successful i don't have a
goal what all i have is i take 200
actions a day so my
thing is to just take actions about
things
and not having a goal actually because
every time i take uh set a goal it's
like
it turns out to be a stupid decision to
setting up a goal for myself personally
so
and since i stopped setting up goals and
just doing things it's turning up it
turned out to be more self-development
but
the results are not there
which i'm not actually much uh
concerned about what i'm concerned about
is if i'm taking actions where are these
actions going i mean where is it being
consumed if i'm doing something better
for
the sustainability for anything that any
kind of
betterment i'm doing towards nature so
where is it going and if it can be
measured
yes two or three points there i have i
have no goal
but it seems that i am going somewhere
but where am i going and how to measure
my progress
so i'll tell you your goal
is the same goal for every creature
in this universe
and the goal is happiness and freedom
now the ways to achieve
yeah so i feel like i have worked and
i feel like started earlier i used to be
so fragile i mean i used to be here and
there doing things and finding out that
it's more into the uh the outside
vibration that i feel doing anything the
the thrill of it i used to think that is
what's building me but then i suddenly
got more static where i don't have to
move around and i feel more
fulfilled without doing anything and if
i keep
being on the same way
there would be
a time where i'm doing nothing so for
example earlier i was taking actions but
now i feel like without taking actions i
am
there
satisfied fulfilled i don't have to do
anything so but
that's a contradicting of
me taking actions i mean actions are
important for us
i mean that's what i felt earlier but
these are totally opposite things so
this is what's happening i'm being like
uh complete without doing anything but i
think it's it's important to take action
this way if i want a betterment in
nature or
support it in
any possible way
okay so first let me go back to
my previous answer that the goal is
decided for you it is happiness and
freedom and how to check your progress
first how to achieve this goal do that
which you love most and do that which is
most necessary that is how we achieve
this goal
and how do we measure the progress on
this towards the goal
the more you progress the more peaceful
you will be
the less agitated and anxious you will
be
the more blissful you will be probably
you will not be dancing and jumping with
joy there is no such thing it is a
simply egoic action
the real progress is measured by the
amount of peace and bliss
carelessness that you develop as you
progress
and about this thing that i'm not doing
anything but i keep thinking that i must
do something that is just
some mental activity
if you are happy not doing anything
just rest be peaceful if something comes
up which must be done
which is necessary the action will
happen and it must happen in total
awareness only intelligent actions
minimal actions must be done nothing
more needs to be done if you are on your
path
you will see that your joy and your
bliss is increasing if you are not on
the correct path you will see that your
anxiety
and your
unhappiness will increase you will go in
depression so
choosing a path is a must and this is
how we decide which is my path the path
of my heart
is
where i get most happiness and most
freedom so think about it for some days
and then
come back in satsang and let me know
so yeah one more thing just like who
decides the necessity uh
it could be i mean your necessity could
be something else and my necessity could
be something else it's
i mean i might have no necessity for
something
which
other person may feel as it's necessary
for this person to do
so
is it necessary to define them
it is very easy
that which is necessary cannot be
avoided
simple formula and it will be different
for different people yes but we are not
concerned with people we are concerned
with my own life mostly
so that which cannot be avoided is
necessary it will happen no matter what
we cannot make a list of necessary
things and then we start doing it it's
that is not possible
whatever comes and if it cannot be
avoided that is necessary yeah but is it
manipulated also i mean can we
manipulate i mean if then what happens
when we manipulate it what if we
manipulated for example something that
is necessary for let's say for me to eat
to
be able to function properly but i
suddenly stopped eating and i just go on
no water diet
and i'm just consuming water for three
days straight so i manipulated the
necessity of it
so
what's actually happening when i'm doing
it it is very easy to see that
if you do not do that which is necessary
suffering happens
and that which is necessary can be
postponed a little bit
but cannot be avoided
if you could postpone it for a long time
for your whole of your life then it is
not necessary and if you cannot postpone
it for for more than a specific time
then
it is
a necessity for this life so for example
eating you said breathing
you can hold your breath for one minute
cannot be postponed even going to
bathroom cannot be you cannot postpone
it too much
so life has already decided what is
necessary now recognize it and do it
it's very simple yeah that's it i guess
okay very good think about it let me
know in the next thing
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